What was I, a New Yorker, doing in British Columbia’s Kootenay District?
A year ago I visited a Calgary client who invited me to his family’s country home for the weekend. It’s on the other side of the Rockies.
Hmmm…the other side of the Rockies, I thought?
I was delighted, picturing something like a drive up to the Catskills. Perhaps we’d stop at the local version of the Harriman outlet mall where I could visit old friends like Ralph Lauren, the Gucci family, Mark Cross. Or maybe a cute country store where I could buy knickknacks and the Canadian equivalent of pecan logs to bring home.
Then we drove and drove and nary a billboard.
We started driving west toward the Rockies. No stores. Just before we slammed into a Rocky, we turned south in the sense of interminable south, Rockies on the right and oceans of grass as far as the horizon on the left. Of stores, nary a hint. Of people, only suggestions like smoke from a remote chimney.

Finally we took a right to head west through the Crowsnest Pass, a thin valley, a flaw in the Rockies’ curtain of rock. The main feature here is a gigantic field of humongous boulders left over from a mountain slide a hundred years ago that killed a great many people.
“There’s the mountain,” said my sanguine host, pointing. “Turtle Mountain. They say the rest of it could come down at any time. See those cracks?”
“Why yes, yes I do,” I whispered. “Is this the fastest we can go?” My idea of natural beauty is the Canyon of Heroes on lower Broadway. Somehow we got out of Alberta and into British Columbia, which I had visited many times. Vancouver, BC. Lovely big city. This was not Vancouver. This was pioneer country and I was in a pickup truck with a cord of wood piled in its bed behind me.
Ahh…the great outdoors!
For the next couple of hours, we drove west then north and saw nothing, nada, nicht except a gazillion trees, more mountains, lakes, rivers, deer. Like Central Park on steroids.
Only the whole thing seemed to be on fire. “This will sound silly,” I said, “but aren’t we driving though the middle of a forest fire?”
“Oh, this is nothing,” laughed my host, the lunatic. “You should see it when it really starts to burn.”
“Those deer run away faster, then?” I wondered. “Is that a mountain lion?” Turns out it was a lynx, whatever that is.
No people, no billboards.
Finally, bored to tears, I watched, dubious but cautiously hopeful, as we slowed to pass through a small village (really small) and then came to a log cabin (like Davy Crockett’s only huge and with running water) on Wasa Lake.
It’s beautiful. People fishing, swimming, water skiing, sunbathing, barbecuing, drinking. Mountains everywhere. The whole horizon, all 360 degrees of it, is straight up. Clear blue sky, though, and soft light and there in the lake was a momma duck with all her duckling babies swimming behind her in a neat line, all but one. I called him Jerome.

Over the next few days, I saw Jerome consistently choose his own paths across the water despite occasional admonishing glances from his mother. Somehow he got to where the rest of them were going anyway.
I quietly cheered Jerome on. He was independent, creative and the despair of the duck establishment. How did a New York baby duck wind up way out here?
I always root for the Jeromes, the independent thinkers who do something unique, creative.
Outside the box? What box?
So last week I was speaking to hundreds of travel planners.
I thought of Jerome last week when I gave a keynote speech and several clinics at a travel association convention. I saw 150+ catalogs and only three of them were Jeromes.
Is your direct marketing a standout? Are you creating a great brand personality to endear yourself to your customers? Are you a Jerome or just another duckling swimming along in a line? Let me know what you’re doing that is unique right now. Please comment here. I appreciate it.






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Lois – you’re such a City Girl – LOL! Love your account. Central Park on steroids…rofl
Jerome lives in a different world, with different threats than his cousin in NYC. His antics may well be his demise, were he to be transplanted to the non-enhanced Central Park. Of course, the same goes for his cousin, should the roles be reversed.
Gotta love Jerome and his ilk. He’s confident enough to go “where no Duck has gone before”. He knows his pond but keeps looking at it from different points.
Just as in Real Estate, you’ve got to know your market – or should I say pond – in order to stand out!
Thanks for a great lesson.
Wonderful story. At first glance Jerome looks like all the other ducks but he strays just enough to be the one that stands out and holds your attention.
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I was thinking about this yesterday, as I drove past a flock of sheep in a field on Lopez Island. There were both the usual sheep sheep and a few of the really chocolaty colored shaggy ones that really do stand out (and their pelts are the perfect match for my Burmese cats). I looked again and there was a Lama in their midst. Now, That really stood out.
Every once in a while I get an email of direct mail piece I notice. Now you have me thinking, why don’t I throw it in the trash immediately and why do I read it, forward it or save it. What is it that stands out? Yes, it is a Lama, a different color, a different shape, definitely a different message. So it would seem different stands out. I keep the over size post cards from Cascade Coil Drapery, and Perennials Outdoor fabrics. Cascade Coil prints a small 3 month calendar on the address side of their cards and sends them every three months. Both cards I show to client’s as they show neat products. I’ve been looking for “different” recently to illustrate standing out to a small biz I mentor, and found all the constant contact I receive look much alike. UGH. It seems obvious now, different stands out. Great Post.
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Hi Scott,
Where in heaven’s name are the Northern Cascades?
And, yes…as you know from all that great Dale Carnegie teaching…people that stand out, take a shot, share with others in a unique way, always win.
Lois:
Wonderful tale with an important message. It brought back many memories of my trip through the Northern Cascades. Always good when the Jeromes successfully reach their goals. Nice to see individuality rewarded!
It’s always a treat to get inspired by mother nature! Great post Lois, there is always a message when reading your blog.